My Daughter Called Me a Slut Today

Yeah, she did. Not so much in a confronting way, but in a passive, much more smug innuendo. Bitch. I never thought I'd be calling my 16 year old a bitch. It was just so hurtful, and she knows it was hurtful and she backed out the driveway in her boyfriend's car, doing up her little seatbelt like a good little stuck up snob and kinda glanced up at me with those same eyes she used to when she'd done something wrong but then when she saw me see her changed her gaze to indifferent. I'm sorry. I'm always venting about my daughter on here.

They were going out to some sports dinner thing, but she and Tom her boyfriend were at our place beforehand, I made them appies. They wanted alcohol but I wouldn't let them. So that's when she got bitchy. And started taking little jabs. "You have wine all the time before you go out." Like, what is she suggesting? That I'm a loose floozy? I don't even know what to say to her in return, it's weird because she has this amazing ability to make anything I say in my defense sound stupid just by the way she sits there. And I know she tells Tom everything about me. He's a nice young guy, he's 2 years older and is in school studying business. But fuck. They go out and do settled couples shit like go to movies and then she gets mad when I don't let her drink my liquor? Jesus, it's cause I need it. Plus they're under age. Plus he comes from money. Which is annoying too, because I know his folks aren't crazy partier drinkers who buy them booze, but ok, it's okay to ask for your broke mother's booze when all she's got is half a bottle before a date with a guy she kinda gets nervous for. That's why, honestly. I'd let her have the wine but I had banked that wine for before the date. It was zinfendel for fuck's sakes, god the fact that I'm being called a slut for 2 glasses of zinfendel is beyond pathetic.

So before they went she was like "Are you coming home tonight?" She knew I was going on a date, gave me a look like I get all drunk and fucked on every date I go on. I always come home. I said "Of course I'm coming home, why?" I really like this guy, I wasn't gonna blow him or do anything beyond a kiss. I didn't even want to do that. Of course we did, but he was completely respectful, something Case would never fathom her mother could ever attract.

The worst part is that she's a fucking little slut with Tom. She probably wanted me to go get fucked so she could get fucked in my house. Little slut probably fucks in my house more than I do. I don't let them fuck in the house but I've found condom remnants and birth control cardboard, little sexually responsible brat. Went and got the pill behind my back, not because I'd oppose that but just to not tell me. Just so I'd find them and be hurt she doesn't disclose that with me. So the little slut is having more sex than I am. I have sex average 1 or 2 times a month (albiet with different men every time) and she probably has it 1 or 2 times a day. So who's the real slut? I hope she gets pregnant. I don't really mean that but maybe I do. Maybe a motherhood scare would wipe that smug little discernment off her face.

16 year old daughters are the worst. Only thing that comes close was when she was 9, whole other story of the way she acted when I lost my job and she got head lice. That changed her forever. She still hates me that she caught lice. (?? I know).